I am a total chicken when it comes to confrontation. I literally feel sick to my stomach when I have to do it...so, if it was me and I couldn't 'get over it' I would email my thoughts and feelings to her and have her do the same for me. Essentially, I am getting out what I need to say and she can do the same without having to do it face to face. Then we have the weekend to decide if we want to continue our working relationship. I know email is soooo impersonal and can be taken in so many ways (usually the wrong ways haha) but I just hate face to face confrontation. I would not be able to get over the way she treated you if it was me without saying something though. It would just fester inside me to the point where I didn't want anything to do with the woman and that would make for a horrible relationship. I don't envy you being put in this position. Sending positive thoughts that all goes well!!!