You can say everything that Alpha and the others suggested but you wouldn't be remiss to say that you needed a week to calm down because you were taken aback by the disrespect and you had to think everything over. That's why you are talking to her now. You also wouldn't be out of line to warn her nicely that if it happens again you will terminate because you will not be verbally abused in your own home. I hope you have a termination clause in your contract that clearly states this fact, I do!