Oy! I hear all of you!
I have one girl who is Miss.Mommy to all the others but is forcefull about it. "No, you sit here (grabs hand and pulls child to sit)" "no colouring now...(push child away)" she gets big NO-No's for both. I tell her that I am the adult and I am in charge not her so ZIP IT! lol

I know a dcp who has a boy who GOD forgive me is ANNOYING as hell! His own mom is on Mat.leave and sends him to her 3 days a week or she will snap! He is allllllllll day calling out your name for everything! He's even pulled the * = my name...
"****, ****, ****"
"WHAT IS IT???"
"I forgot [smile]"

His dcp has said a few times "you're not allowed to talk to me anymore today" or if you say my name ONE more time....[evil glare]"

YOU ARE NOT ALONE!!!! LOL