I'm so sorry you have to go through that while running your business. I am divorced, but I wasn't running a dayhome while it was happening. But I will tell you, the smartest thing I did was know what I was entitled to. I knew how much money was where and how much was mine! I did my research and tried very hard to not let emotions get in the way. I discussed everything with my husband and agree'd on what I was taking and what I was owed before I got a lawyer. I then took all of that information into my lawyer, her drew up the paperwork and we were done! No back and forth, no mediation, we decided on everything without the lawyers then just made it legal.

I wish you all the best in your new adventure. Make sure you take care of yourself first.