Thank you all. I it's been tough as it's the first time I've had to terminate. The younger sibling is so sweet and I am really sad to see her go, but it is for the best. So very, very sad though that mom fails to see the problem with the situation. I agree, she is not raising an "independent and strong woman" but she is teaching her little girl to be manipulative, dishonest, disrespectful and spiteful. I stuck it out as long as I could because I knew there wasn't much guidance at home and I thought maybe, just maybe, I could be a postive and consistant presence for these children and hopefully make a difference, but I did the best I could. I'm not their parent. It just really shows you how important it is to be a positive role model because kids pick up EVERYTHING! I really wanted to do immediate termination, but I wanted to honor my contract of 2 weeks notice(I also state immediate dismissal for terrible behavior from parent or child) but I wanted to try to give her a chance to find altrnate care, although if there is one more outburst or disrespectful incident, they're outta here. I just want to shake this mother. so sad. Anyhow, peace IS around the corner for us and I am so looking forward to it. Thanks for all the positive thoughts and energy! Most parents are so great, but this one really takes the crazy cake.