I had a set of twins just like this, possibly worse if you can believe that. They swore at me and the other children constantly (they were 2.5)..they would scream until they threw up all over the place. They were violent to myself and the other children. They would self-mutilate (she would pull her hair out in clumps and bite herself) if they didn't get their own way. They beat up their mother on a regular basis and beat up each other. It was awful! They were the most exhausting children I have ever worked with. I lasted 6 months before I couldn't take it anymore. I can only imagine what they will be like in a few years...

My advice, terminate asap. You will not believe the difference in your daycare, the daycare kiddos and your mood. I was literally going to bed at 7pm on the days they were here just wiped! They've been gone a couple months now and things have changed so much. I can now stay up longer than my 6 year old haha, but I no longer feel the dread of getting up on their days, the constant tummy pain wondering who/what they would hurt break. I don't clock watch now like I used too, counting down literally the seconds until it was time for them to go home.

Lesson learned for me...I would NEVER wait as long as I did with those 2 again.