Day #1 of 'no big deal' approach = staring at her fork the entire time - 30min and not touching the plate or even looking at me. My DD finished eating the meal + fruit to follow, went potty, washed up and was tucked in for nap. Came back down and nothing had moved. I removed her plate, told her to go potty and put her to bed too.
(sigh)
I really hope for her sake she gives in sooner than later because I wont!