Yup - by that age I am all about tough love!

I would tell her that quiet time is quiet time - once she has peed after lunch she is not make ANY noise and rest her body ... that means no talk, no sign, no SCREAM for sure and no get off her bed for the 30 minutes you expect of her ... and I do do tough love if they are not QUIET for that entire 30 minutes than I restart their clock for them ... if they wake up the others they STAY on their bed while the others do quiet activities until the two hours of quiet time is over!

I have also in the past done a 'wake up reward' jar ... so the natural consequence being that IF they are noisy, do not rest, do not allow ME to get my chores done and to also rest than in the afternoon we are all to 'tired' to have much fun and well I still have to do my CHORES so the crew can sit at the table with BOOKS as the only option while I do those .... HOWEVER if they rest quietly for the allotted time (I am extra tough love and expect an hour from them) and if they allow ME to rest and get my chores done THEN when quiet time is over and the babies are up and rested they get to pick something out of the 'fun time jar' to do in the afternoon either outside or inside depending on the weather .... this is a great incentive for my crew when I first opened and was trying to sleep train multiple newbies between 2-4 who tried to play off each other ... within a week they were all napping 2 hours