I don't have to and I never will explain my fees. It is non of their business. It is actually very rude.

If you are not happy with my fees you are more then welcome to go and look elsewhere simple. I will tell you something, the more you explain the more they will ask. They don't have to know more then what they suppost to know. I don't ask them extra when they receive bonus or a pay rise.

I don't have parents' hand book. I tell them what I want from them at the interview and I have a very simple contract. If any of my families object to "my rules" I have no problem saying it on their face and if they question me I will tell them it is not working. I learned that If I'm happy people around me are happy too.

Hope it helps.
Cocoon