I know it is hard to think about terminating but if it was ME I would give the parents notice at the end of teh school year that I would not be picking up care for their son after school or during the summer.

It is so hard to control who influences your child at school, what friends he pics etc so if it was a case like this where it was in my home and by my choice then I would definitely exercise that right and try to limit the time my son is influenced by this sort of child.

kids this age are all about their peers and being like them. My son is the same age and I shudder at some of the friends he has at school but I don't let them have play dates etc based on things I have heard or seen from them. He has a good set of friends too who seem to be from families more like ours and who seem to have manners and discipline and those are great.

If you get the chance to save your child time with the dcb then I would do it