I agree with both points LD & MM - I guess I'm taking it a bit harder because she isn't trying to hide the bump, shes wearing tight tshirts and babydoll tops that really really show the bump. Then there is the fact that she talk about ti openly on her facebook page (which has no privacy settngs so someone like me who is NOT on her friends list can see/read it all). She has over 500 'friends' and I can guarentee not all of them are CLOSE friends, also due to her daughters health issues she has lots of 'support grops' who have said "congrats! thats great news, we havent seen ***** since she was 8 months old and now shes going to be a big sister, how nice" the kid is now 3yrs old...... She texts me during the day to bash her boss or manager and talk about weekend plans, at PU or DO she spends 10min chatting with me..........but can't tell me the obvious that she's pregnant.

Weird = yes!
Rude & Disrespectful = in MY opinion yes!

Oh and at this point with her due date moved up she's 19 weeks along now...