I think moving forward I will do the same. Call them to find out if they are feeling better..
I shouldn't assume that everyone will look out for the well being of everyone else in my care.

I am just so extra annoyed as I let myself consider this daycare Mom more than just a client and although we don't go out soically after daycare, we chat quite a bit and seem to have so much in common and get a long. This isn't the first time they have seemed to take advantage of a situation and disapointed that they would do it. Again, lesson learned not to let the line of friend and business get burried