I agree that the rules are the rules. If we are not following rules, then why can't parents question some of ours....taking advantage of home providers as someone over their numbers is taking advantage.
True, some providers are excellent and over their numbers but, for myself I would be cautious in reporting and get your facts ~ which sounds like you know.

I agree with you dodge- I know a lot of great providers who are also over. The parents know and I know she is an excellent provider.
Just take all things above that the ladies offered in advice. Good luck in your choice to call or not.