I had a girl in care who was a miracle baby so very ahem, loved by all the adults in her life and she was here for 3 years until leaving for JK. When she was smaller her Mom was a freak! Her: Oh baby girl, are you ok, oh, oh, Me: puke

Anyway, over the years I managed to convince the mother that her daughter was playing her like a musical instrument and knew just how to manipulate her to get the most attention. The Mom caught on and really impressed me at how she learned to call her daughter on her unnecessary drama. If you give the parents the truth every day about any issues that arise and point out the Oscar winning performances in front of parents when they happen, most of the parents catch on and appreciate you for the help. Not all, but most.