I know there is something going on. Mom thinks she's bored with lessons here as she is the oldest. Perhaps this is true in some sense. She said that she would put her in camp twice a week during the week but I told her that she is in school three times a week now and her behaviour is still poor so this is not a problem solver.

I think this has a lot to do with mom going back to work full time. I think that she's not getting the attention she needs either (this child craves constant attention). these are both things that I can't change for her.

I might make her my shadow (man I'm going to HATE that) but at least I am assuring the safety of everyone else when I have to pee or make snack or something.

She is great with her sister who is one. She only picks on the children that a quieter and dont yell out right away when she does something. her behavior is very calculated and this is what bugs me the most.. she she does not speak while she is hurting someone.