I am happy and it is working and it's fair for a 4 year old. But, I have to admit that I'm not totally satisfied. I would have preferred her to still go upstairs and do it. But, I know that I'm as stubborn as she is, and something had to give. She's resting. I have my time and her and my daughter actually keep eachother company during the second half of naps, so my daughter doesn't need me as much!