When I really look at it, I guess it is about accountability. This particular parent regularly forgets a great deal of things like spare clothes, permission slips for outings, cheques to pay me, days I have off where she just walks into my house or bangs on the door over and over until I answer it, and brings her son with no shoes often. She is an awesome lady, she is just really relaxed about some things. I am quite tired of being her mommy and reminding her as the more often I do that, the worse her behavior seems to get. She has a high powered job and runs a large team of executives so I know that time management and organization are something she can manage quite well. She just doesn't apply that to her personal life or inside her home. Maybe she gives too much to her job.

I did tell her to remove the five days she is demanding as she has added up three more days she has carried over from last year!!!! I do have emails from back then in my records where I have advised parents that I needed new cheques by a certain day to replace the old ones but she did not bring any, nor can I make her.

I won't write on someone else's cheque and have them sign it as I have had that cause numerous problems in the past.