Well, I talked to her last night and tears started to well up in her eyes and she started to cry a bit. I put my arm around her shoulders and told her not to cry. She said that she is just frustrated and I told her I was too. I told her all the things I loved about him, how much I really do adore him but told her this HAS to change! She understands I think and I'm hoping she will step up and crack the whip with him a bit so he knows she means business. He's good with the dad because the dad is more stern with him so the dcb knows he means business. Dcmom is a lot more softer and she admitted that and this is where the problem lies so hopefully she will pull up her big girl panties and be more stern with him so he knows she means business.