Breakfast

[jec]

Morning ladies

I've got a new year old who has been with us for a month now. It's been quite the 4 weeks getting know know each other and what triggers him for upset. He doesn't just cry. When he cries it's the ugly scream and tears cry
We've worked around his schedule to work in 2 naps and it's going much better as he needs his sleep still. Our day is now heading in the right direction with the past week being really positive and he is really becoming a part of our crew. Thankfully.

One issue- his ugly cry is when he arrives and I put him down and right before nap. So before nap I get, tired and wanting to sleep so if I can't distract him then I'll put him down early, no prob.
The issue is I will give him Cherrios to help bridge the gap between arriving and breakfast. ( I believe that he loves coming as he smiles when he gets here and puts his arms out to come to me )The other kids are now covering their ears and my own two WONT come upstairs because they don't want to hear him and my husband this morning couldn't stay either because he wouldn't stop. Light switch when I pick him up though and put him back down.

I asked Mom when breakfast is normally before he arrived here and on weekends and it's around arrival time and then with my prep time which isn't that long but, when your a little hungry person can seem like forever.
Do you think it's way out there to ask him to eat at home to see if that changes his behavior. Mom said they do give him a little before arriving but maybe that is jsut upsetting him because he is hungry and wanting more. The car trip keeps him occupied until arriving and then cries because hunger has set in again?
Thoughts?