As I stated in my initial post, mom just told me she's pregnant. I was going to schedule a meeting (there are other things we need to talk about as well), but when she came to pick up the boy, I brought it up casually. This is exactly how the conversation went:
ME: Are you so excited??
MOM: So excited, it's making work bareably (she just went back to work in March)
ME: Yeah, I can see how that would make it easier
MOM: I can't wait to leave...blah blah blah
ME: When did you find out? (I was seriously hoping she would say something like, Oh I was breastfeading so I didn't realize I'd missed my period and I just found out 2 weeks ago)
MOM: Oh we've known. (SILENCE) But it's not till October, you'll have plenty of kids by then
ME: So, you're taking him out then?
MOM: I don't know. We may leave him part time cause he loves it here.
Then she changed the subject.

Yesterday was one of the worst days since I've started my daycare, for numerous reasons, and this pissed me of SO much! She was so blaze about it, like it wasn't a serious thing. She's been lying to me! She lied to me when they first started. We even have a half hour conversation about having more kids and when we'd like to start trying and she never even hinted at it. No, she isn't obligated to tell me, but I feel like she was really dishonest. I mean, we had a lengthy conversation, like a friend-to-friend conversation about it, and she didn't tell me.

Am i wrong to feel so cheated?

I'm replacing them asap. And it's going to suck for her because she only have 4months left and she's going to have to find daycare. Normally, I would feel bad, but this isn't the only trouble I've been having with them, as we all know. This week was the worst. I had to send them THREE notes home telling them I needed fruit (he still eats puree, and I told them I WOULD NOT supply that because he's too old to eating pureed food), wipes and milk. I reminded them 5 times about the wipes and three times about the milk. At night, she always gives him a cup of milk on his way home (they walk, and I think he wants to be held on the way home so he fusses- I don't know) so I told her I didn't have any left. She panicked. I felt a little bit of satisfaction.

I probably sound like such a horrible person, but obviously I've developped a resentment towards these people. I'm trying not to think about it when the little boy is here, but his parents are just so ignorant. Like, last night, she changed his poopy diaper ON MY COUCH, folded the diaper up and then LEFT IT ON MY COUCH. WTF!! In what world is that acceptable?

Ugh. I know you're all probably tired of hearing about these people, but I am just struggling so much. Yesterday, I was literally in tears because I want to let them go so badly because I feel SO taken advantage of, but I can't let them go. I have no replacement and I get my last ei cheque next week. I'm scraping by, so I can't let him go.

Thanks for listening to me rant.