I hate the guilty feeling....especiall y when its with someone that has been with you for so long. But I guess we slowly learn to stick up for ourselves with time. Some people might take it as us being strict or bitchy, but their thinking would be way different if they had to be in our shoes. I think it will come as a surprise but just think of how good it will feel to have it running more smoothly the way you want. I would hate having the dad come freshly showered as well. I have a mom that does grocery shopping before picking up her kid. everyone picks up at 5/ 5:15/ and because she does this she ends up at 5:30....i hate it too.


































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