She is offering $12/hour 40 to 44 hours a week (8 hour days). It really is worth it for me to do it even if it's a little inconvenient taking the kids from home every day etc., I would be taking home way more than what I am taking home now having to pay out for daycare. But I am absolutely not doing it unless I can take my kids. I will probably have my in-laws take the girls one or two times per week just to give them a break from the travel etc.
We haven't gotten as far as feeding discussion yet - still trying to get over the kid hurdle lol. If she agrees with the kids coming then i will make up a list of other points to discuss including food etc.