How old is this child???

I have one like that in care for the past 5 years I empathize with how draining it can be although I have always been able to manage her to ensure that the others all get lots of attention cause initially my approach to her was to help her learn patience and independence so for the longest time she was basically always LAST to have her needs met and when she waited patiently I praised her and than she would get a chance at being first for something - she's made huge improvements but it is partially her personality and partially their lifestyle at home that results in the "me me me" behaviors.

It is a challenge to care for so many varied personalities for sure - and when our own kids were easy going ones some of those "challenging" kids come as a schock to say the least!