I did make a sandwich, told them the good with the bad but then told them if things didn't change, I would have no choice for the safety of the group but i also said I was willing to work with them. So, they decided that it might be better if he go somewhere where there were kids his age/older for him to play with. I will never again let parents know there is a problem that will potentially get their care terminated if things don't change. I will either deal with the child on my own or terminate with no advance warning to fix it.