I feel so bad for you ladies and so lucky with the families in my care. My clients are NOT perfect parents but as I said already, they know from day one that they are always going to get honesty from me and I expect the same from them. They know that I will give 100% but I want to work with them and we must work together. I tell people at the interview that I will go through anything if they work with me but have terminated the families when big issues have arisen and the parents will not work with me. If I scare them away, well that's ok because I didn't want the problems. However, I know for a fact great parents are out there because I working with them here.