Thank you so much for your response to this and taking the approach of offering to help someone out. Bravo!! For the record, I had just turned 20 when I had my 2nd child and I sure as hell didn't appreciate strangers labelling me but they still did. I'm laughing at them now as I have an 11 yr old and a 9 yr old and am celebrating my 10th wedding anniversairy with their father next week. I commend you for your kindness. If only their were more people like you in my life when I was that age. This girl is lucky to have you offer help, lets hope she is open to accepting it.