I hear all of you....I've got one who won't eat a certain shape of pasta. or if a banana is cut up. or another who if the toast isn't sliced into 4s or halves. I am pretty opposed to making different meals for different children....ie, my own daughter just won't eat eggs, and I know she never will but I still offer her them in a smaller portion and she will eat the toast and fruit instead. I just present to them again the food they didn't eat if they are hungry and sometimes they will eat it if they are just being picky as opposed to truly not liking a certain food, like eggs. When I'm onto the next meal then I give them what everyone is being served as well of course. If they really don't want it. They wait until the next meal/option.