Dealing with less than good behavior

[giraffe]

My husband and I have a tongue-in-cheek saying "We don't negotiate with terrorists." Perhaps it's in poor taste in today's world climate, but we hold to it.

How old is he? What are your current methods of discipline? What is his currency?

Agree... I do not negotiate with children. Age does come into play when disiplining children. He is using this method to control your actions, I asume that it is something that works well with his parents. Have you discussed his behavior issues with his parents? How do they feel about his "tactics"?