I had a 3 year old start in January (she's now 4) that was like this; with time (& probably the realization that I just don't have THAT kind of time) she has really come along way. I still struggle with the fact hat she is constantly directing her 1 year old sister's play, but she will be in school in fall so that won't be an issue. Also, there's the perfectly normal (but frustrating) rivalry of my grup of 2 year olds that seem to only want what the other has!