I am vegan and so is my family. I could not even imagine feeding my day home children vegan. There is a ton of prep to eating this way and is unrealistic from my pov. Also unless all the children in the day home are eating this way at home as well they will hate the food and you will have issues in this area immediately I believe.

The other aspect is it is very expensive. If you do this for her child, you need to do this for all and man oh man I wouldn't.

This mom needs a nanny that will cater to her preferences and that will take the child on play dates.

I would definitely not accept this parent.