Well, I think if she is not asking you to supply any of these special foods or do any extra work in any way, I would be okay with it. I have one starting in the fall and her mom has said that on days when i serve meat, she will supply a vegetarian option (I send my menu out in advance anyway)...i was okay with this. I don't think the other kids will be wrestling her for her tofu In fact, in a way, you are getting a good deal as you don't have the cost of feeding the child. I do understand that if everyone is eating different things though it can get difficult, so it all depends on how you feel about that. I've had a little one only on purees and he brought his lunch and none of the other kids seemed to mind. I see it from the parents' perspective as I am a freak about healthy eating as well and I used to send my childrens' lunches to daycare