Oh yes, as far as naptime goes, I only have children up to JK usually, but I'm about to keep one child for JK & SK every other day. But I insist ALL of the children lay down for a rest every day. It is Naptime/Quiet Time in my contract and non-negotiable because I need my break in the middle of my day.

If I have a child over age 5 who doesn't nap they will be allowed to look at a book with a low light until they become tired enough to close their eyes. My 5 year old grandson comes once in a while on a PD day and he brings his DS game system with him and plays it in his bed in the dark for about 45 minutes then usually puts it down and naps for about an hour. I hope this gives you a few ideas.