when I first started I was panicked about having 2 children to care for under 2. Then then next one came less panick as I had developed a routine. Now 5, no problem. Get in a good routine - kids love to be able to predict what will happen next, put your sons toys away and invest in d/c toys only, and try to relax yourself around the kids. They can pick up on your anxiety and act up. Do not worry about kids getting bored. With enough toys and creative items for them to play with they will construct their own play, let them think for themselves. If someone seems bored, make a couple of suggestions to them. If they don't do it then read a book with them and then suggest they play with something.