What would you do if they invite you own child because they are close friends?? Do you let your child go? Or if it's a place where you need to be there too?
I'm only asking because I've heard little clues for one dck's bday coming up...so I'd like to be prepared!
Oh that is a tougher one I imagine ~ I think I would let my child choose and than do my very best to keep a professional distance perhaps making my spouse do the drop off and pick up or 'staying' if it is required!
Children construct their own intelligence. The adult must provide activities and context, but most of all must be able to listen. Children need proof that adults believe in them. Their three great desires are to be listened to, to understand, and to demonstrate that they are exactly what we expect."