Uhh, I hear ya! My first year I was in bed at 9 every night as well (earlier sometimes, lol). I found once I got into a routine that really helped. As well as when you have established families it takes the stress away of not being sure if you are going to have income coming in....

Sticking to something that is for yourself is really important too so you do not go crazy working 24/7.

Best of luck and I hope you get some sleep soon!