Hi ... I don't have non nappers.... Even the 3.75 yr old still naps....and if she wakes early she just stays in her bed and rests quietly. And yes I follow a routine too breakfast at 7:30, then free play, I do outside time in the morning from 9-10:30, tidy up from 10:30- 11 lunch 11-12 nap/quiet time 12-3 then parents start to arrive at 3 and all are gone by 4:30. in the afternoon as each child gets up I do diaper change, drink, snack, and then they get their shoes on. The last ones to leave do something quietly like books or puzzles.