yeah, the 4 year old was with another day home previously but they switched because my location is more convenient for the parents. We normally go outside in the morning, as well, as it gets just so hot in the afternoons and my yard is directly in the sun with no shade. Quite often we go on the deck as it's covered but the humidity can be quite the killer so we normally only last half an hour at a time. Normally I get the older ones to lay down on separate couches with blankets and quietly watch TV while the two younger ones nap in separate rooms, but they never fall asleep. His mom says that he doesn't nap during the day and if he does it's normally in the car when they are out and about. I think he's tired too. How do you guys get older kids to rest when they don't nap? My house is pretty small so the only place available is the living room.