I think some times I create something into more of a problem than it needs to be
Moving forward I think I'm going to just serve a light breakfast....maybe I'm the one who served all these big breakfast meals and the kids got used to eating them. Maybe giving them this letter will just make them have more to worry about- where as I can lessen the amount of breakfast and then serve early lunch at 11 and then snack again after nap

Then my other thought- not telling them -isn't that like lying and or am I just meeting the needs of the group.