yes you're right....I didn't word myself properly. In my head the issue is that she does all of this at home but nothing here. They also sid they don't hold her ALL the time which I know know mom "doesn't" but runs to baby after every/any whimper. So I get why baby cried when I didn't do what SHE wanted. Dad says he's tougher on her...mom's a suck LOL
Also, she HATES tummy time and seems to have NO arm strength. Even flips out at every diaper change (dad confirmed that she does it at home too). She's a chunky-monkey 8mos old wearing 12-18mos clothing.....could the extra weight be a factor or should I be looking for other signs?