Oh so sorry this happened to you. It's impossible not to let things bug you...as much as I wish for the opportunity to just turn my brain off sometimes. I too think she was just blowing smoke. Hopefully you can get some peace of mind in that there's nothing really you can do at this point anyway, except worry and fret uselessly...what will come will come (if anything) & you are well equipped to handle it. Best of luck! We're all cheering you on