Quote Originally Posted by Alphaghetti View Post
....Is this average 6 yo behaviour on any level? ....
I feel like a broken record but EVERYTHING you've shared sounds like extreme lack of sleep and an over tired child who lacks the resilience and problem solving skills to cope with the days 'normal' stresses!

My first question would be what are his SLEEP patterns at home and do you offer him a REST at daycare?

My next would be are there certain times of the day his 'behaviour' is worse and could it be changes in his blood sugar ~ you mentioned he has a 'sweet junk food' perference which means he might be a high carb eater which will cause highs and lows in glucose levels and trust me having HIGH glucose can cause anger out bursts even in the most gentle person

IMO no it is not NORMAL for a 6 year old child to be so full of aggression and not have proper conflict resolution skills .... this might be due to his speech delays but are those being ADDRESSED in the home or at school?