I have kids in my care right that are ages 4,22 months,21 months and my kids 2.5 and 5 yrs old. My problem is that my son and the 4yr old are to aggressive together and they dont listen and the little ones follow. Like for example yesterday was a very bad day I had them all playing in the playrrom while i was cooking lunch when the two older boys were playing rough with the toys so i put on a 20 min show just to get them them to relax. so i put the show on and go back into the kitchen to prepare lunch and i catch them jumping on the couch with the little ones. I am so fed up right now with there aggressions that i wish it was september already and they would go back to school. I think this is my last yr for school age and i think for my son i need to find summer camps for him. The 4 yr old and the 21 month old are brothers and they are a handful THe 21 month old hits, grabs your face, pinches, pulls hair, takes a fit where ever we go. for example we went to the dollar store to get a few things and i had to grab the stuff and go home because he was screaming bloody murder and everyone was staring at me. any suggestions keeping the older ones busy while i prep for lunch? Ive triend doing a table top activities (this is what i do with the little ones while they are school) but they dont seem interested. Ive also tried a show or a movie but they never sit to watch it. help! Any suggestions?