nice to here momof4's response, that means you are very kind and caring, willing to go the extra mile for the child and family, so nice. i guess after doing daycare for a while you can def build up a little more "gaurd", I wouldnt want to play the game, just sounds like alot of trouble. BUT, if the family is good people and willing to work with you, you can deal with just about anything. (as long as liability isnt an issue)