Great advice. I will def give both families a date of final decision upon which I will fill with 2 new full timers.if no dec is made. that is the issue though, i keep bugging them both to try a figure if they can make it work together. if they cnt make it wrk together, i will have to let one family go. but they all know that already. i am VERY open with my parents. respect is very important to me, thats why I wld greatly appreciate a plan of action from them.