Lied to.......Advice please

[sunnydays]

I honestly don`t think you should take it so personally. Obviously, if they are keeping the older child with you, they are happy with your daycare. As a parent, if I had an option to have my child in a free daycare (providing that it is a good daycare), I have to say I would take that option too over paying $800-$1000 more per month for the second child. It is a financial reality for parents that childcare is very expensive, so given a cheaper option if the parents feel that the child will be equally well-cared for in that situation, I don't blame them for choosing it. I am not sure what you mean by "tribal", but I am assuming it is perhaps for First Nations children and perhaps the program is also geared toward their particular needs? Anyway, I wouldn't be taking it personally!

had something like that happen to me. have a mom who looked like she was gaining wieght for a while. of course i didnt say anything!!! about 4 monthes later come to find out she's pregnant!!!! why wouldnt you tell your provider???? oh...because your not sure you want to send your new baby to her. (trying to get onto a free program in tribal care center down the road) the only thing is babys not tribal and the care center takes tribal babies first. still plans to send older child to me though!!! talk about dishonesty! i have loved your daughter for 11 hours a day for 3.5 years and thats the thanks i get. "no thanks, we'll take the new baby where daycare is FREE" betchya thats great care!!!!