Nearing my wits end!

[mimi]

this child needs professional help. You do not have the capacity to deal with this girl. Such an unfortunate situation for everyone involved. The parents need to take her to a doctor and you need to terminate this family for your sake, their sake(so they will realize the severity of this little girls issues) and the sake of your d/c children. Side note: you should not be providing/paying for the diapering supplies used by the children - that's the parents responsibility.

[Other Mummy]

OMG... This child has done ALL THIS...and you still haven't terminated because you feel badly for putting the parents in a "spot".???

Nothing more to add that hasn't already been said. I just cannot believe it You do not need to tolerate this!