Seems this family is grounded ~ they are more interested in the foundations of the course and look at it more as a way to bringing focus during challenging times. I asked what their expecations were of me as to me, it sounded like basic common knowledge ( however I didn't put it that way ) and they just put it to me as no hitting and or yelling which is think is a very large NO for us all !

It's kind of like the Dr Sears of my Mom's generation- one of the many books/seminars that new parents read up on to get ideas. They take it as that and not just following steps 1 through 10 ~ thankfully