Thanks Momof4 !! I feel like I"m doing something wrong but I can't figure out what. I guess it is the phase and just gotta keep at it. It did kinda catch me of guard cause she his really polite, usually calm, gentle and was very reasonable. I keep thinking ...OMG I went wrong somewhere since I can't see any improvement. I know they can be very persistant. I usually try to give her some choices which can prevent the tantrum but sometimes there is just no way garound it. She fights bed time, getting dressed, diaper change, meal time, teeth brushing, bath ... By the end of the day I feel like Sgt. Mommy lol