LittleFeet I can totally relate. I just recently posted about my own 3 year old girl's tantrums. Normally for any other child I would advise to no matter what your startegy is be consistant and do not feed into the behaviour. How silly do I feel to need to get my own advice from someone else LOL But it's ok and it's very normal. We have does darn motherly feelings that get in the way of our judgment ;0) All I can say to you is stick with what you beleive is in the best intentions for your child. If daycare one day a week is all you can do for now than that's a reality and it just means that you may have to work a little longer or harder to get your baby past the phase ...and you know what maybye not. If you feel guilty , don't let your baby feel it. Remember that your baby's only way of talking to you is by crying. It may sound worst than it actually is, she is already smarter than you think
Good luck !