Just keep her stuff at your house and notify her it is there for pickup within so many days, if she doesnt come just dump it to Good Will or whatever. Word to the wise: what ever you do, DONT BRING IT TO THEIR HOUSE! I dod this once and the Mother Yelled me off her porch. about a week later, i recieved a letter stating if i "harassed" them any more I would recieve a letter from her attourney. What? Sometimes when you make "special" people angry, they act CRAZY. lol